Influencer Nicolette Fountaris Reveals: Why You Should Rethink Your Frustration with Men!
Do you know the feeling? You swipe through dating apps, meet seemingly interesting people, and in the end, you ask yourself: Are all men the same? An Instagram user expressed exactly this frustration and wanted to know from influencer Nicolette Fountaris: How do I date men if I hate men? A question that many of us have probably secretly thought about.
Nicolette's Honest Reaction
The 37-year-old Nicolette Fountaris, known for her candid "Dirty Thursday" Q&As about love and relationships, did not hesitate. She posed the counter-question that should concern us all: What have "the men" done to you that makes you believe you hate them? And what have they perhaps not done? For Nicolette, it is clear: This resentment affects not only the questioner but a large portion of women worldwide.
The Search for the Good Ones
Nicolette doubts that the questioner really rejects *all* men categorically. Because someone who truly despises every man would hardly be looking for dates. Her thesis: If a heterosexual woman really cannot find a single man she likes, then she either lives "in the jungle" or is so entrenched in her view that she simply cannot see the good sides anymore. Her clear message: There are really, really great men out there. Sure, they are often already taken, but they exist! She herself knows "guys who are really classy."
The Suggestion That Could Go Viral
Then came the sentence that caused a stir and was meant with a wink: "If all men occasionally made out with each other, the world of men would be different, I'm convinced of that!" A humorous thought that might relieve the pressure from the heteronormative relationship world and create more understanding. Or simply a funny thought that makes us think.
Your Path Out of Resentment
Nicolette's final advice is more profound than it initially seems. She recommends seriously dealing with your own feelings. Where does this blanket hatred come from? What is the cause of the resentment against men? Only when you find that out can you gain a new perspective and perhaps discover the "great guys" that Nicolette described. It's worth starting this inner research!
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